Funny how we plan ourselves to death just to find peace.
Its actually simple. The fastest way to get control of your life is to stop trying to control everyone else. Sounds logical, but almost nobody does it.
We waste a ridiculous amount of time on people who dont do what we want. We analyze texts, replay conversations, imagine what someone should have said. Meanwhile, our own energy leaks away like a flat tire.
You have zero control over what other people do, think, or feel. Zero. And yet we act like were the director of someone elses movie. Why did she sound so cold? Should I have said it differently? Maybe. But maybe not.
Heres the thing, it doesnt help. Every minute you spend trying to figure out or adjust someone else is a minute you dont spend on yourself. And thats where it all goes wrong.
Because once you stop controlling, something strange happens. Space opens up. Calm. Its like you finally stop biking against the wind. You realize people find their own path, and so do you.
So yeah. The fastest way to get your life together? Stop fixing everyone elses.
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